Can you be a shoulder to cry on?? I don't understand what he means? and its difficult?

Awww dont cry first off because there are so many people that care like me! Im sorry that hes acting this way but first off a guy that you have a feeligns for and him visa versa perhaps should never ever cross a boundary of saying that hes goign to you. You should have told him to apologize for that, and that also says that he is mostly interested in or whatnot, unless that is the case for you. But from the sounds it says he just wants to be friends which really sucks., but also it sounds like benifriends as well. Most guys these days dont ever want to commit to one woman which tears me up because im not that type of person. But before you even start dating someoen and you are argueing with them it is a sign to not date them, because just think about how much worse it'll be after when you do date them, and the argueing is none stop. It affects everything!!! It makes for a terrible relationship. You sound liek an awsome girl and you should let this take treat you like this! Move on and find a guy who will treat you with respect and loyalty is my opinion! =)