What does he want? it's really confusing me!?

Don't do it. All guys want as you know but you don't need the drama. You have probably gotten a lot more attractive over the years and he just wants you to do stuff with. He may not actualy have any intrest in the friend thing. If you are as pretty as what he wants from you makes you sound you could get a way better guy. Stay away from isting people with cheating be proud of who you are. And trust me you are better than that.